Why men go for cheating

The issue of cheating in relationships remains topical and causes a lot of controversy. Difficulties in understanding the reasons for such behavior, as well as its consequences for the relationship, lead to various myths and misconceptions. Let's try to understand which of them have no real basis and why men cheat.

Myth 1: Happy married men do not cheat.

This myth has long been disproved by psychologists. Studies show that more than half of married men are still looking for romantic adventures on the side, even if everything seems perfect in the family. American psychologist Shirley Glass in her book “Not Just Friends” provides statistics that confirm this fact: 56% of men admitted to cheating, despite the external well-being of the marriage. The reasons for such actions can be different: from boredom to the search for a new experience. Women are more likely to cheat with a specific purpose - to take revenge for a cooled relationship.

Myth 2: Men cheat more often than women.

More recently, scientists have found that the statistics of cheating in marriage between men and women are almost equalized. Men are not the main “winners” in this area, and the motives for cheating remain similar on both sides - the desire for new sensations and emotions. Interestingly, women, as a rule, can hide their cheating better and experience guilt more acutely.

Myth 3: Lack of sex always leads to cheating.

Sexual dissatisfaction can indeed be one of the reasons for cheating, but it is far from the only factor. Men, like women, are often looking for the emotional support and understanding they lack in a relationship. Infidelity can begin with a simple friendship in which partners find the comfort and attention they lack from their other halves.

Myth 4: If you cheat once, you will cheat again.

This myth is based on stereotypes, and it may be true in some cases. However, it is important to remember that not all men repeat their mistakes. If a mistake has happened, it doesn't mean it will happen again. But forgiveness and patience should be deliberate, not based on the hope that the situation will right itself. If the infidelity was an accident, rebuilding trust is entirely possible.

Myth 5: Spiritual infidelity is not considered cheating.

Another common misconception is to believe that if a relationship on the side does not involve physical intimacy, it is not cheating. However, a deep emotional connection can be just as destructive to a couple as physical infidelity. The emotions that people invest in such relationships are often much stronger and longer lasting than one might expect. Therefore, it is important to be honest and frank not only with your partner, but also with yourself.

Conclusion

Cheating is a complex and multifaceted issue, and the reasons for it can be varied. Understanding what is behind cheating will help avoid misconceptions and strengthen the relationship. It is important to remember that each case is unique, and there can be both personal and psychological reasons.